My name is Paul and I love sex dating sites
Lookin’ for a Date?
Hi there, I’m Paul and if you’re reading this, we probably share a similar interest and that’s going on dates and hooking up with as many chicks as possible. The easiest way to make this happen nowadays is to sign up for a dating site, connect with a few girls, start chatting and eventually meet. Of course, this method doesn’t have a 100% success rate. There are literally thousands of dating sites and a huge portion of them are filled with scams, escorts and people you’re not interested in. So how do you go about picking a site that’s right for you? It can be a difficult task, but thankfully, good ol’ Paul is here to make your life easier.
Choose Only The Best Sites for Your Dating Life
One of the first sites I ever had success with was Adult Friend Finder. They’ve certainly grown in popularity over the last 10 years or so - and it’s easy to see why. However, I’m completely willing to admit that I struck out quite a few times before I got it right, so here’s your chance to learn from my mistakes. The easiest thing you can do is take a look at the list I’ve compiled. Not only are they sorted by quality, but also popularity. Popularity = more people on the site = better chance of hooking up. Next, you’ll want to be wary of any site that claims to have “hundreds of members in your area.” Chances are that won’t be the case unless you live in a big metropolitan area like New York or Los Angeles. You might also be tempted to join a niche-oriented site, but they tend to have fewer members so you’re better off joining a bigger site and finding someone who shares your interests. Unless again you’re living in a big city. If you’re more interested in a flirty virtual relationship, I suggest a live cam site.
Wondering How To Start?
So what do you do once you’ve picked a site? Naturally, you’ll want to maximize your experience, especially if you’ve paid to join. First, you’ll start with your profile. This is arguably the most important aspect and you want to make it as eye-catching as possible. Don’t be afraid to show off a little. Girls want to hear about all your good qualities. Don’t be brass by simply talking about how big your dick is or how long you can last in bed because, honestly, that sort of bragging usually has the opposite effect on women. A certain amount of bragging is certainly acceptable, as long as you have the moves to back it up. Also, no blurry or fake profile pics, or pictures of cartoon characters, etc. Keep your bio short, sweet and attention-grabbing and leave no section unfinished. The more chicks know about you, the more interest they’ll show.
Next, once you’ve come up with a good profile you want to make sure you join a site that’s worth both your time and money. Admittedly, finding sites like this is a little easier said than done, but there are tips and tricks to help you out. First, be wary of any site that says it’s free, but that a credit card is “only required for verification.” This is usually bull and there’s a good chance you’ll end up with some hidden fees. Legitimate sites will either be free or require you to purchase a package. Free ones will only require an email address to sign up. It’s also a good idea to create a unique email that you only associate with that particular site. Sometimes, dating sites like to inundate you with spam. Better to keep those away from any personal or work-related addresses, especially if you want to keep your online dating life a secret, particularly if you’re interested in a site like Ashley Madison.
If It Looks Too Good To Be True ...
Next, there are a few types of profiles you’re going to want to avoid. Let’s start with the fake ones. Yes, these exist and often are bots made to entice men into joining and spending money. If the profile looks too good to be true, it probably is. So if her profile is all about how much she wants sex 24/7, wants to fuck outdoors, wants to have a threesome with another girl, wants to have anal, etc., then take a step back. I’m not saying these types of women don’t exist, but they usually won’t divulge that much information right away. Also, be wary of any site that says “so-and-so checked out your profile” and then requires you to pay some sort of premium membership to see who that person is. Chances are it’s simply a bot and not a real person.
Next, you want to be wary of any girl who might ask for cash. Doesn’t matter how small the amount is. If they’re from out of town, they might try to get you to pay for a plane ticket or a hotel room, or they might feed you some sort of sob story about family or personal issues. Unless you’re checking out a Sugar Daddy site like Wealthy Men, they’re either a scammer or an escort. I have no issue with the escort profession (I’ve certainly enjoyed some in the past), but there are other sites dedicated to that sort of thing if you’re interested. Rest assured, the second you transfer any cash their way, they’ll be gone in the wind or will keep begging to send more. Always trust your instincts. If something doesn’t feel right, walk away.
Don’t Be Too Picky
The last bit of knowledge I’d like to impart on my fellow readers is this: don’t be picky. There’s nothing wrong with having a type, but keep in mind that the amount of men on any dating site usually outnumbers the amount of women by a large majority. You’ll have a better chance if you’re willing to have an open mind and chat with several different ladies. That’s also why it’s so important to have a great profile, like I mentioned early. Do whatever you can to stand out above the crowd and you’re bound to meet women for some hot dating and sex in no time! Feel free to email me with any other tips or advice that I can incorporate into the article.